5 Expert Tips To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - How To Win Back His Love Fast

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When your relationship ended the accusations and heated words being thrown around, might have made you think you were better of without him. That was then and this is now. You never thought you could miss anyone so much. Your ex boyfriend is on your mind day and night and you feel you must get him back.

If you still love your ex, there is nothing wrong with trying to get him back, you just need to be careful how you go about it, You do not want to be too aggressive and make him pull farther away. The best way to get any ex boyfriend back is by using psychological tricks. This way you can get inside his mind and direct his thinking. Here are 5 expert tips to win back his love.

1. Cut off all contact with your ex boyfriend.

Of course if you work in the same place or run around with the same crowd, you cannot just ignore him, but have as little contact as possible. If he approaches you, be friendly but keep the conversation short. Do and say the things that attracted him to you at the start. This will make him yearn to see more of you again.

2. Accept The Breakup

Never let your ex boyfriend know he has hurt you and definitely do not let him see you cry. Show him that he is not the center of your life and you can manage without him. Spend time with your family and find other interests. He will be watching you because all men keep tabs on their ex girlfriends activities.

3. Make Him Miss You

Everyone has a nostalgia gene, and your ex boyfriend is no exception. Every time he sees you at work or a social gathering, he will be reminded of the good times you had together. When you are around where he can observe you, act happy and carefree. It was probably the fact that you were so much fun to be with that attracted him at the start and he will yearn to have those times back.

4. Go Out With Your Friends

Men have big egos, that is what makes them want to be best at any game they play. So, when he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend was sure that you would just sit at home and wait for him to call. You can show him he is wrong by going out with your friends and be seen having a good time. You don't want to date any other men, but you can do plenty of flirting.

5. Disappear

After he has heard the stories of you being out on the town, having fun and flirting with other guys, your ex boyfriend might feel you slipping away. This will make him want to talk to you, but you will not be around. If you take a trip somewhere for a few days and he cannot contact you, it will make him desperate. He will imagine you with some other guy and kick himself for breaking up with you.

When your boyfriend breaks up with you, in order to win back his love, you have to make him think he might lose you. Thinking he can no longer have you will make him want you all the more. This is how you use male psychology to get your ex boyfriend back.

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H. L. Archer has 1 articles online

H L Archer is well versed in the field of romantic relations having helped many people over the years to solve problems of dating, strained marital relations, divorce, dating after divorce and surviving after a relationship breakup. He would like to extend a helpful hand to you and any others that may be struggling with a romantic relationship.

You are invited to visit his blog for more relationship breakup advice.

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This article was published on 2011/04/26
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