Getting your ex boyfriend back after a breakup will depend upon what you say and do. You have to do things that will create a positive image of you in his mind and say things that will attract him to you again. At this point, you might be saying, "this is what I want to do, but how can I do it"? You need to learn how to use male psychology to push his emotional hot buttons.
Actually, you already know something about pushing his emotional hot buttons or you would never have got him to begin with. Remember the way you attracted him when you first met him and the things you did to make him chase you? That was using male psychology. You pretended not to be interested in him and you seemed to know that men always want what they can't have.
Women seem to know how to handle men until their guy dumps them. Then they throw all of their intuition out the window and become the pursuer. A woman chasing a man is not an attractive sight, and especially if you are crying or begging. Your ex boyfriend will pull away from you and refuse to communicate, but the worst problem will be the image you create in his mind.
Your ex boyfriend will see you as a needy, desperate red eyed woman who cannot control her emotions. What man wants a woman like that? To make him want you and even come begging for your love again, you will have to change this image of you in his mind. That will require you to use some male psychology to get in his head and begin pushing his emotional hot buttons.
This might sound as if you will have to stay close to him and let him know you love him, but just the opposite is true. You need to walk away and ignore him. Show him you do not need him in your life. Think of yourself and your own needs. This will not be easy for you and there will be times when you will need someone to almost lock you in a room to keep you away from your ex boyfriend.
Getting an ex boyfriend back is not easy. You have to hang tough and make him have the same feeling of rejection you are feeling. Men have a lot of pride and to make him throw away his pride and come begging you to take him back, you have to really convince your ex boyfriend he is losing you for good. If you love him and want him back, you have to be strong.
By using male psychology to push his emotional hot buttons, you can make the job of getting your ex boyfriend back much easier. By knowing the right things to say and do in order to create the proper image of you in his mind, you can make your ex want you back.