Heartbroken Over an Ex-Boyfriend? Want Him Back?

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Every relationship is different, so every break up is different. You are heartbroken and want to get your ex boyfriend back. Here are some tips to help you get him back. Most of this is just common sense, but after a break up it is always not easy to get a good perspective, so it is time to step back, take a deep breath and think things through clearly.

First off do not constantly call or text him. This is important, it is going to take some time to get him back so don't rush it and try to pressure him. Let some time pass to help heal the wounds, and to let him start missing you more. Keep the lines of communication open, but keep it to a minimum at this point, brief contact is best at this time.

Always be nice to him, you may be heartbroken but keep in mind your goal is to get him back. If you can't bring yourself to do this, your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back are not good. You want to make him see how wonderful you are and how much he's missing. Avoid nagging, complaining, or acting unpleasant towards him. Doing things like this will just remind him of the things he wants to get away from, and drive him farther away. If you make things uncomfortable every time you see him, it will only make him want to avoid you.

Forget about trying to be deceptive. No matter what kind of deception you're thinking of using, even if it doesn't seem important is a bad idea. Even the most innocent seeming lie or exaggeration could backfire later. There is no point of trying to get him back only to lose him later because he finds out about your dishonesty. Be yourself, let the traits that attracted him in the first place come out.

If you are considering going out with someone just to make your ex jealous, that's not really fair to your date or you. Trying to make him jealous is a dangerous game to play, it just might make him think that you have moved on, and that it is time for him to move on too. You can still date others if you really feel the need to date and go out, but be honest with yourself and others, and you stand a better chance of getting back together with your ex boyfriend.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex boyfriend back. A good next step is to read a unique Relationship Manual with a simple, down to earth, step by step plan that you can follow. It covers all the things you need to know and do, even in the really difficult situations that look hopeless.

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Author is a student of human nature and relationships with a desire to help other people. You can view his website at I want my lover back

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This article was published on 2010/03/26
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