You thought you had found the man of your dreams and the future looked bright. Then he walked in and said he needed some space. Now you are an emotional mess with no future with him at all. But things are not as dark as they may seem. You can make your ex boyfriend chase you again. To do that you need to learn how ignoring him will get your ex back fast.
What makes you so desperate is, you had no idea he was unhappy. It hit you like a lightning strike. Now you would at least like to know what the problem is, but he won't even talk to you. Actually it is good that he won't talk to you because in your emotional state, you need to stay away from your ex. Do not follow what you see on television and in the movies. They make it look so easy to get your ex boyfriend back. You just go to him and tell him of your undying love. He takes you in his arms and you live happily ever after.
That does not happen in real life. Instead of taking you in his arms, he will reject and hurt you some more. If you ask your family and friends for advice, they will tell you to let him go and forget him. You may think that is something you cannot do, but their advice is pretty good. You will not be able to forget him, but you do have to let him go for a while.
To make your ex boyfriend chase you again, you need to make him think that you are letting him go. Cut off all contact with him and move on with your life. Return to the life you had before you met him. Spend time with your family and let their love and support help you regain your confidence. Go out with your friends and show him you can have a good time without him.
By completely ignoring him, you are making him wonder if you are over him. Hearing of your activities will make him have second thoughts about the breakup. Soon your ex boyfriend will realize he is still in love with you and misses being with you. Thinking he might have lost you for good will make him desperate to get you back. He will feel he must have misjudged you because you do not care for him as much as he thought you did. If you did, you could not have gotten over him so fast.
All of these feelings will be pushing his emotional hot buttons and he will begin to feel he was the one that was dumped. That will make him wonder how he could have not seen what he was giving up. The more he thinks of you, the more desirable you will become in his mind. Soon he will not be able to restrain himself any longer. Your ex boyfriend will be chasing you again.