How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Stop Being Stubborn And See The Breakup Was A Mistake

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You messed up a few times and now the man you love is gone. But you don't feel you messed up enough to make him breakup with you. It makes you wonder if he was interested in another woman and used your mistakes as an excuse for the breakup. No matter what the reason, you feel he shouldn't be so stubborn that he won't even talk to you. If only you could make him see the breakup is a mistake.

Your ex boyfriend is not being any more stubborn than most men after a breakup. You just have to find a way to snap him out of it and make him see his mistake. Apologizing or telling your ex boyfriend you will change will not make him stop being stubborn. In fact it will make him ignore you even more. But you can use his stubbornness and his male pride against him and make him see his mistake.

Maybe you are treating your ex boyfriend too much like an adult. After all he is acting like a child, isn't he? Then why not treat him like a child. Have you ever seen parents trying to deal with an unruly child in a pubic place? The more they plead with the child to be good, the more unruly the child becomes. But what happens if the parent just walks away? The child will straighten up and follow.

To make your ex boyfriend stop being stubborn and see the breakup was a mistake, you have to realize that men and little boys are quite similar. Being a male they both have a lot of male testosterone, which is fed by their male ego. Once you realize what you are dealing with, it will be easy to use these very same things to make your ex see his mistake.

All of this might seem too simple, and that is why women have so many problems trying to get their ex boyfriends back. You try to get him to sit down and talk like an adult, but he is determined to be stubborn. The more you push, the more he will pull away. Many times when a woman becomes discouraged and stops trying, her ex will want to talk. She never realizes what changed him, but it was because she stopped pushing.

By understanding the similarity between a stubborn ex boyfriend and an unruly little boy, it will be easy to control and manipulate his behavior. He is still in love with you and he has the same emotions that made him fall in love with you to begin with. To make your ex boyfriend see the breakup was a mistake, you have to activate those emotions.

By using some male psychology to push his emotional hot buttons, you can arouse these emotions. Your ex boyfriend will see he still loves you and soon his stubbornness will melt away. He will actually begin chasing you again.

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H L Archer is well versed in the field of romantic relations having helped many people over the years to solve problems of dating, strained marital relations, divorce, dating after divorce and surviving after a relationship breakup. He would like to extend a helpful hand to you and any others that may be struggling with a romantic relationship.

You are invited to visit his blog for more relationship breakup advice.

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This article was published on 2011/06/15
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