After a breakup, you will be searching for ways to get your ex boyfriend back. You will be told of many ways to do this by family, friends and information you might read. But no matter what tactic you choose, it will have to include making him miss you. In fact, you need to make him miss you so bad he will be powerless to resist you. Here are proven tips to get your ex back.
In order to make a man miss you, he needs to experience his life without you. As long as you are around, he cannot possibly miss you. Something is only missed when you think you have lost it. Once you feel you have lost something of value, you will fight to get it back. That should tell you that in order to get your ex back, you need to make him think he has lost you.
Your ex boyfriend must have seen something about you that attracted him to you and made him pursue you. After you became a couple, he still loved you, but the challenge was gone. Winning something is important to men, it is in their genes. If you want an example of this, look at a bunch of guys participating in a sport. They will break their neck to be the winner.
When you ex boyfriend met you, he felt that you might be unattainable and that made you a challenge to him. You were also a mystery. He had to find out how you would react to certain things and that made it more of a challenge. If you can create that situation again, he will be powerless to resist you. Actually, it is not as hard to do as you think. Just do the opposite of what he expects you to do.
When your ex broke up with you he expected you to chase him and beg him to love you again. But if you just let him go and make a life without him, you will make him think you don't care. Pursue other interests and go out with your friends for a good time. When word gets back to your ex, he will be confused. You are not doing things the way he had planned and he is beginning to have second thoughts about breaking up with you.
This is when you should disappear. Take a vacation or visit relatives in another city. Your ex boyfriend will wonder if you have another guy and it will make him wild to think he might have lost you for good. By acting as if you were fine with the breakup and appearing to be moving on, you have made yourself a mystery to him again. Soon your ex boyfriend will be missing you so much he will have to try to get you back.