A breakup is not an easy thing to handle. One minute you think you have found the man of your dreams and the next minute he dumps you. No wonder you become so desperate and start chasing and begging him to love you. But that won't get your ex back. Learn how to stop begging your ex boyfriend and make him start begging you to take him back.
To make your ex boyfriend start begging you, it will be necessary to reverse the breakup. Make your ex feel as desperate as you are feeling and he will do anything to get you back. This will take a little male psychology. You will also need to observe the no contact rule. Here is how you are going to reverse the breakup and make your ex boyfriend come begging for your love.
The first thing to do is accept the breakup and move on. That might be hard to do, but if you want to get your ex back, you have to make him think you don't care. Spend time with your family and do things that interests you. The busier you are, the less you will think of your ex boyfriend. When you have a grip on your emotions, go out and have a good time.
These actions will be doing two things. You will be regaining your confidence and your ex boyfriend will be wondering why you stopped begging him to love you. Making him curious is using male psychology. Men are not as hard to understand as most women think. The guy you love has a lot of pride and a big ego and you can use them to get him back.
Now that you have him curious, drop out of sight. Take a trip or just make sure you avoid your ex for a while. This will make him wonder if you have found someone else. He has been bragging to his friends about how you have been chasing and begging him. If you suddenly show up with a new boyfriend, he is going to look foolish.
Your ex boyfriend will decide he has to find out what has happened to you. He will probably send an email to see if you will answer. If you don't answer his email, he will call. Let him leave a message and wait a few days to call him back. This puts you in control and you can end the conversation any time you wish.
Let him do some small talk and then tell him you have to leave, but he can call back again. This is using male psychology to show him you are not desperate for him anymore, but you haven't discouraged him. Hearing your voice again will make him realize how much he misses you and that he still loves you.
You must never call him or contact him in any way. Make him come to you and treat him as if he was just a friend. If you have the patience to wait him out, his desperation will overcome his pride and ego and your ex boyfriend will beg you to take him back.