When you are left to your own thoughts after you have lost the love of your life, you want the best way to get your ex boyfriend back. This might cause you to turn to friends for advice and they will tell you to let him go and find someone else. You won't want to do that, but here is why their advice might be the right thing to do.
The best way to get your ex boyfriend back is to let him go. Not forever, but for a few weeks. This will show him that you respect his wishes and he will have a more positive view toward you. Crying and begging will only make him sure that he did the right thing by leaving you. But, showing him your strength and maturity will make him have second thoughts.
By ignoring him and appearing to move on with your life, he will wonder if you cared as much for him as he thought you did. Keep him thinking that way by finding other interests. Many women have started a new and successful career by taking night classes and becoming more employable. You can also put this time to good use by reuniting with your family. They might have been feeling neglected since you became so wrapped up in your relationship. Go out with friends and have a good time.
All of these activities will show your ex boyfriend that you are not just sitting around waiting for him to call. Giving him the time and space to think will allow your ex to experience his life without you. The memories of the good times he had with you will make him miss you. When he begins to miss you, your ex boyfriend will begin to think he made a big mistake when he broke up with you.
Most women do not realize it, but men fall in love differently than you do. The closer your man is to you, the more you love him, but men are just the opposite. The longer he is away from you the more beautiful and desirable you become to him. Every day he is not with you will make him fall more in love with you. Soon his desire for you will become overwhelming and he will have to have you back in his life. When that happens he will be ready to swallow his pride and beg you to take him back.