Your boyfriend broke up with you and you cannot think of anything you said or did to upset him. Yet you run after him crying and begging him to take you back. You might love him, but the way he is treating you is unfair and you are taking the wrong approach. The best way to get your ex boyfriend back, is to stop begging him and make him beg you to take him back.
Sometimes guys can be very immature. They are not content just to have you tell them you love them. The need to make you cry and beg. That feeds his ego and makes him feel like a big man. The problem is, even if you do cry, beg and lose your pride, he will only pull farther away from you. If you throw yourself at him, he won't want you.
Your ex boyfriend will only beg you to take him back, if he thinks he cannot have you. That is the way men are and the best way to get your ex back is by using male psychology. Make him think you are over him and you are moving on and he will change in a hurry. It is no different than dealing with a child that is having a tantrum. If you give in to them they get worse, but if you ignore them they will come around and promise to be good.
That is why ignoring your ex will work so well to get him back. He will begin to think you do not care for him anymore and start to worry about losing you. When that happens, he is no longer in control and he knows it. To make him worry even more about losing you, get dressed so you look desirable and go out with your friends for a good time.
When your ex boyfriend hears about you being the center of attraction with all of the guys hanging around you, he will begin to panic. What started out as a game to make you beg him, has gotten serious and he is feeling like you have rejected and dumped him. This will make him grow up in a hurry and he will be kicking himself for losing the best thing that ever happened to him.
When your boyfriend starts acting like a child, just let him go off and sulk, while you go on with your life. The best way to get your ex boyfriend back when he is acting immature is to stop begging him and make him beg you to take him back.