A breakup really hurts, but if you have lost the man you love, you already know it is painful. What you want to know is how to get your ex boyfriend back. You might have been sitting night after night, with nothing on your mind but the man you still love. You remember the good times you had together and how good it felt to be in his arms. This is all psychological because you miss your ex and feel rejected.
To get your ex boyfriend back, you have to transfer the feelings of rejection and loss to him. You do this by staying on your ex boyfriend's mind and making him miss you. But, why should he miss you? Because you are going to use male psychology to get inside his head and make him miss you. All you have to do is jog his memory a little.
Everyone is born with a nostalgia gene. This gene makes us remember the good times in our life and long to have them back. When you use male psychology to put your ex boyfriend's nostalgia gene into action, he will begin to miss you. To get him to remembering the good times he had with you, you will have to get your emotions in check and do a little acting.
The reason you are so desperate to get your ex back is because you think he will find a new love and be gone for good. Remember we said you have to transfer your feelings to him. That means you have to make him desperate to have you back before you find a new love and he loses you for good. A breakup does not mean your ex no longer loves you. You just have to make him realize how much he needs you.
You have to make your ex boyfriend see that absence does make the heart grow fonder. You can do that by stop having any contact with him and disappear from his radar. You have to realize that your ex boyfriend is used to having you around. He is accustomed to being able to call and talk to you, or send and email or text message and get a prompt reply.
By not knowing where you are or what you are doing, you will begin to get inside his head and make him feel the loss of you. Loss effects men very badly. They cannot stand to lose. Just watch them play a game and you will see how hard it is for them to lose. This is how the male mind works and you can take advantage of his competitive nature to bring back to you.
By staying on your ex boyfriend's mind, you can make his nostalgia gene cause him to miss you. At the same time you can push his emotional hot buttons by making him think he is losing you. When you use this psychology, no matter how stubborn he may be, your ex boyfriend will come running back to you.