When you still love the boyfriend that dumped you, it is only natural to become obsessed with getting him back. This obsession can make you do things you never thought you would do. You never thought you would run after a man and beg him to love you, but here you are chasing your ex boyfriend and telling him you cannot live without him. But, you need to learn how to make him chase you if you want him back.
When your boyfriend dumps you, it sets off a human reaction within your mind that makes you want him back. This happens to anyone when they lose something they value. You might also feel humiliation and dread telling your family and friends you were dumped. This is another human reaction because you feel that somehow you have failed.
If you want to get your ex boyfriend back after he dumps you, it will be necessary to put all of these feelings aside and make him regret dumping you. Your ex is expecting you to chase him and beg for his love, but you cannot let him see you shed one tear. By not doing what he expects, you will be using male psychology to make him confused.
When your ex boyfriend sees you are not bothered by the breakup, he will wonder if you still love him. In fact, he will wonder if you ever did love him. Men cannot stand to be ignored and it is especially painful to his pride when it is an ex girlfriend that is ignoring him. He won't be able to take this sort of treatment for long and soon your friends will tell you he has been asking about you.
When your boyfriend dumps you, he will want to keep track of you. He really doesn't want to lose you because he is still in love with you. So when he begins asking your friends if you are dating anyone, you know you have him worried.
When your ex boyfriend looks around and sees you are no where to be found, he will think you might have found someone else and be off somewhere with another man. By making him think he might have lost you, you will make him regret dumping you. He will be anxious to tell you he still loves you and he will call. But, you will not be available.
When you do not take his calls, he will turn to your friends again and ask if they know where you are. But he will find out that your friends are wondering if you have found another love. At this point, the boyfriend that dumped you will be the one obsessed with getting his ex back. Lead him on a chase for a while but don't make him become discouraged.
When he becomes desperate enough to beg you to take him back, you should arrange to meet him for a talk. Let him know how much he hurt you and that you will never go through this again. Do not be nasty, but tell him what you expect of him if you take him back.